Can I Move With The Child Even If We Are Not Married: Florida Relocation of Unmarried Parents
I hear this question frequently in my practice, "We were never married, we have a child together, and I want to move back to _________ to be closer to my family. Can I go?" The answer is "No, without a Court Order allowing you to move, you run the risk of being brought back to Florida by court-order if you don't follow the Statute correctly." Regardless if you are married or not, if the other parent is entitled to parenting-time with the child, the parent wishing to relocate must follow Florida Statute 61.13001. There does not need to be a court order in place ordering time-sharing for the other parent, just being entitled to it will allow the non-relocating parent to be able to stop the relocation. It is often insufficient for the parent seeking to relocate to show only that the planned move would provide a "support system" (family, friends, etc.) to her/him or the children.
Additionally, it may not enough to show that a higher paying job is available in the planned location. However the more factors which can be provided to the court, including additional factors such as offering substitute visitation and a contribution toward travel costs for the other parent, may suffice. Whether the non-relocating parent has been an active parent is also a significant factor. A difficult situation exists when a non-relocating parent has been active with the children, but the employer of the parenting seeking to relocate or her/his new spouse requires a transfer to another state. Generally, there is usually no easy way to determine in advance whether a court will grant relocation. There is a caveat here, if the relocating parents obtains the consent/approval of the non-relocating parent, then the move should not be able to be stopped. Here are some things to consider whether you were married or not to the child's other parent and are seeking to relocate: